Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Vaccinations and Doctors

There wasn't really much in terms of Vaccinations when I was little. However, today, its a totally different ball game altogether. My baby received her very first round of vaccination on the day she was born; three to be precise. Also, since we were first-time parents, we needed a good pediatrician; someone close to home and reachable on the phone. Most doctors in India tend not to receive phone calls and will basically demand that you come and visit them at their chambers. But I was really particular in making sure that whoever we finalized would at least be open to advising over the phone occasionally.

With the recommendation of a close family member, who is a doctor by the way, we met with the pediatrician. Seemed like a very balanced doctor and also open to listening to us as parents, which we thought was a good thing. He gave us a folder with a huge list for vaccinations; some mandatory and some were optional. Apparently, now we have painless / fever-less vaccinations, imported ones, of course. They were priced slightly more than the Indian versions, but as parents who wouldn't want to opt for the better ones, if they can afford to do so.

Anyways, the day for the second round of vaccinations soon arrived. I was pretty apprehensive; didn't know how my daughter was going to react. The dose that she had undergone at the time of birth; she hardly would have understood. But now she is over a month old and does react to certain elements. As a concerned mum, I packed her bag with her favorite toys, a bottle of milk; whatever that would be required to divert her attention once the dose was administered. My husband also accompanied us. Definitely need all the support that I can get.

There were just so many babies and toddlers at the Clinic. Some tiny, new-borns; some strapping lads. My baby girl, even though I should not be saying it, has some power of attraction. All the kids, the ones that were able to walk, were coming up to her; just to give her a cuddle. Even the mummies were so interested in activities. Soon we were called inside. There were a couple of oral vaccinations along with 2 injections. The doc after checking all her parameters, in terms of weight, height, etc. was really happy with the progress she was making. 

The oral doses were given pretty quickly. She cried a bit and I had to hold her tight for the doc to administer it properly. I was more scared of the injections. I was praying that she wouldn't be hurt. But it just went so amazingly well. The whole affair literally took a minute or so. And she cried for another minute and then she was absolutely fine. I didn't even have to take out her favorite toy.

All my doubts re the doctor were laid to rest. We as parents were happy that we chose him to take care of what is most precious in our lives. Her well-being is the most important thing for us and we always want to do what's best for her.

Monday, September 10, 2012


A whirlwind 30 days....and the first one month birthday celebration

It's been a whirlwind. 30 days went like zip. So may visitors over the past 3 weeks since we arrived from the hospital. Tons of presents; I practically have no space to store them. Numerous clothes. And of course, amenities from Jonson & Jonsons cannot go unnoticed. To top it all, Daddy dearest is so much into this new baby stuff that he lands up with all the latest stuff from Mothercare. Seemed like everything just happened in a flash!

It is now time to celebrate Mimi's one month birthday. I don't know if anyone really does this sort of a thing, but why should that stop me. I am a happy mum of a beautiful princess, and I did not intend to waste celebrating any of the occasions in my daughter's life. So out came the birthday hats, balloons and ribbons. The house was colorfully decorated. A new dress is a given for such an important occasion.

My cousin took charge of the birthday cake. Definitely had to be a chocolate one. I had tons of chocolate cake when I was pregnant. That was my only craving. Maybe that’s the reason why my daughter is always so energetic and active.

 Anyways, its evening and time to get ready for the party. My mum arranges for a table full of finger foods. Yummy! Guests arrive; uncles, aunts, grandparents, great-grandparents. My daughter is just so lucky to have such loving family, not just her mum and dad, but the extended family too. Everyone is just so excited to celebrate this occasion with her.

Mimi is dressed and ready to blow the candle (I’ll do that on her behalf) and cut the cake (again that’s going to be me doing that for her). However, I cannot but give her a little lick of the chocolate cream from the cake. It was just so tasty. The remaining pieces were cut and mum and sis served to the invites.

It was a fun day. I’m so glad I did this. Something different for my little girl. I hope she appreciates it when she grows up and understands. I've kept the candle from the cake and the cards she received today. I'm thinking of starting a scrap book for her. Just the everyday stuff  that she uses and the things you can't really find in a baby record book. 

I am happy that I am getting the opportunity to create so many lovely memories for her. And she in turn for me. Isn' that what being mum is all about?